Insights on connection, resilience, and finding common ground amidst division.

Kia ora koutou - This week, our 100,000 Cups of Tea kōrero took a deeply reflective turn as we examined the impacts of political and social pressures on our communities. With challenges mounting—from economic struggles to the divisive effects of recent political developments—we explored how we can navigate this climate while fostering resilience, unity, and effective collective action. Central to our discussion was the enduring relevance of Te Tiriti o Waitangi as a framework for justice and connection, not just for Māori but for all.

Our next cuppa Friday 29 November will flow from this yarn and focus on the following provocation: How can we turn moments of disruption into opportunities for resilience, ensuring our communities stay connected and strong amidst challenges?

A Climate of Tension and Pressure

The kōrero began by acknowledging the growing strain many are experiencing in their communities. One participant noted, “People are spinning out in a rage over small things that they’d usually shrug off—it feels like the last straw for many.” This was echoed across the discussion, with reflections on how financial hardships, job losses, and political polarisation have intensified frustration and fear.

Yet, amidst these tensions, participants also recognised an opportunity to foster understanding and connection. As one shared, “Even in this pressure, we see openings to bring people together—to connect across differences and build stronger, supportive networks.”

Social Media: Double-Edged Sword

The role of social media in modern activism sparked rich discussion, revealing two distinct perspectives. On one hand, it was seen as an indispensable tool for collective action, with participants highlighting its role in mobilising the recent hikoi: “Without social media, I don’t think we would have seen such a powerful turnout. It allowed the message to reach so many people in such diverse ways.”

However, others raised concerns about its ethical implications and its potential to harm mental health: “I’ve stepped away from social media because it doesn’t align with my values. But it’s hard to ignore its utility for movements like this.”

Participants considered alternative approaches, such as using platforms like Signal or Slack, that align with shared values while maintaining the power of collective connection.

Youth Leadership and Collective Action

The group celebrated the leadership and bravery of Rangatahi, who have demonstrated extraordinary resilience and unity. Participants noted their ability to step forward despite historical burdens of colonisation and systemic inequities:“Our rangatahi lead with less fear than we did. Their strength and innovation are inspiring and remind us of the importance of supporting their leadership journeys.”

There was also input which recognised the need to support young leaders as they navigate these complex challenges. They discussed ways to amplify their voices while providing mentorship and guidance to sustain their momentum.

The Emotional Toll and Growing Division

Some reflected on the emotional and cultural toll of recent events, including feelings of fear, frustration, and helplessness. One shared, “For the first time in my life, I told my son we need to hold on to our land intergenerationally. The potential for loss feels so real right now.”

Another participant described the divisive strategies being used as “an old playbook being recycled. It feels like we’re being recolonised all over again.”

Navigating Polarisation

Another key theme was the importance of working across differences, particularly in spaces where opposing views coexist. One participant reflected: “As Māori, we also must acknowledge that some far-right views are held by our own whānau. The challenge is finding ways to work together without compromising our values.”

This sentiment was echoed in discussions about maintaining respect and curiosity even in the face of opposition. As one participant noted, “Extreme sides exist, but the goal is to find common ground where it’s possible while holding firm to the principles of Te Tiriti.”

Resilience in Disruption

Disruption was discussed as both a challenge and an opportunity: “Disruption isn’t always bad—it can get us moving. But it needs to lead somewhere. How do we use this moment to create something lasting?”

Te Tiriti and Legal Complexity

A significant focus was on the thought of the Treaty Principles bill making it to a referendum and its potential to undermine Te Tiriti. Participants questioned the legal validity of such a move, with one pointing out: “Referendums come from one side of the system, but Te Tiriti acknowledges two. This would be systemic bias at its core.”

The historical context of Te Tiriti was also highlighted: “He Whakaputanga preceded the Treaty and remains a legally binding document. These layers of history are key to navigating today’s challenges.”

Te Tiriti: A Framework for Unity

At the heart of the kōrero was the question of how Te Tiriti can guide us in these turbulent times. One participant reflected on its deep significance: “Te Tiriti is not just a legal document—it is a living covenant that reminds us of the commitments made to Māori and to this land.”

A Final Reflection

To close, one participant offered an inspiring reminder of hope: “Now is the time to build resilience, to strengthen our connections, and to ensure we have the right people in the right places to counter divisive moves.”

Another participant added, “This is a challenging moment, but it’s also a time to remember what binds us together—our shared values, our mutual responsibilities, and our collective hope for the future.”

This Week’s Question for Reflection

How can we turn moments of disruption into opportunities for resilience, ensuring our communities stay connected and strong amidst challenges?

Ngā mihi nui,
Arama and the Walk Together Team

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